Don’t complain about your situation. You make your circumstances the way they are, so make the effort to change them. And if you really did everything that was in your power to do and still nothing changes, you have every right to complain. But, if you got that far the you should realize that complaining will get you nowhere and life keeps on going so you should just enjoy it.
Found this sitting in my drafts folder, I’m sure then I was writing to the general public (or maybe someone specific, can’t remember) but now it feels like it was written for me… I guess this is a splinter/beam moment. Ah Paul, you were so right.